5 Signs of manipulation by your partner

Alya Khemji
3 min readMay 28, 2018

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Sometimes you think that you are in love but at the same time you realize some things that won’t lt you agree to it? This is the manipulation of a relationship that twists you towards those actions that seem to be a mistake or you think that this is not your idea. When you love someone so unconditionally and trust him, it is very difficult to accept that you are being manipulated. Someone who can change your thoughts, and change your perspective may be very effective in your future life.

These signs of manipulation are often indirect because manipulative masters are extremely known to control other people’s life, thoughts, and mind and show a piece of real love. Of course, I am here to help you, provide you some comparisons and signs that help to figure out whether you are a victim of manipulation or not. Below are some signs of a manipulative partner:

Expert to show that they are victims:

No matter how the argument started, who said, what was done and how it ends, your partner will always show his heart is broken, even if you are the one who apologizes first, try to sort out cannot wrap their actions. The victim role they played will hit you emotionally and you will impeach yourself for everything.

Do you really love me?

This is the main accuse that someone asks you to prove your love again and again by doing such things you may not agree or you think that it is a mistake. The one who uses tactics to manipulate your emotions and minds, no matter how innocence it sounds it is the main issue that drags your thoughts, actions towards the negative thing which may be a nightmare for you in future.

Blackmailing:

Blackmailing is the ugly way to manipulate your partner that may balance the relationship in a healthy way but It seems that “if you leave, I will kill myself’’ it is all dramatic, usual statements that are tactics to make someone scared of a thing to keep his partner under eye and control.

Kindness manipulation:

Kindness is the way of killing someone emotionally, because people may seem to be very nice, protective, but in a real sense, they are not. For example, someone says, “I have done a lot for you, what you have done? That shows they are not so good to do nice stuff for you.

Joking is worst manipulation:

This is the manipulation in two parts, first when someone criticizes you in a bad manner that hurts you but you cannot react on this as they claim that they were kidding. Secondly making jokes about your personality, feelings, about your relationship led you down in front of everyone. This is the worst manipulation that one can do by saying that this is all about fun.

In conclusion, these manipulation tricks hit your personality, let you down, you cannot make right choices for your life, you cannot be independent, will be ashamed to choose your decisions. These all issues will be very effective in your future life. First, you have to go through these signs are exactly same that you are facing? If yes then you are the victim of manipulation.

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Alya Khemji
Alya Khemji

Written by Alya Khemji

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